Wednesday March 31, 2010 | 7 comments
Thirty-two years ago, I was a 21-year-old woman at a crossroads. Without skipping a beat and with a certainty I envied, most of my friends went off to graduate schools or jobs. I, on the other hand, felt as though a bus had just dropped me off in a strange town and I had no idea where to go or what to do next. Until, that is, I decided to follow in the footsteps of the young 19th Century European men of privilege and embark on my own version of the Grand Tour. In September 1978, I hopped aboard a Swiss Air flight to Zurich and after a long flight and an equally long train ride, disembarked in the Luneburger Heide, the heathland of northern Germany. As luck would have it, my first destination choice – Munster – had fallen through when the two-month intensive German-language session at the Goethe Institute there filled up early. So, I opted for my second choice – Luneburg – an old salt town just a short distance southeast of Hamburg. And, in the words of Mr. Frost, “that has made all the difference.”
On the first day of classes at Luneburg’s Goethe Institute, I met the man who would become my husband. Many memories of those amazing two months in Luneburg are still very vivid, but it was not until recently, when I read my diary from that time to my husband that I realized tea’s role in that life-altering adventure. In my very first entry on September 27, 1978 while overnighting at the Zurich Youth Hostel, I described being taken to tea (NOT coffee) by a man I met at the hostel. Then, the very next day found me sipping two glasses of tea at the Konditorei Schurter on Niederdorf Strasse in Zurich. On the nearly 12-hour train trip from Zurich to Luneburg, I subsisted on a meager breakfast of “raisins and tea,” but once I reached the youth hostel in Luneburg, I enjoyed a Belegtes Brot (light supper) that impressed me not for the quality of the food, but rather for the tea, which I described as “the special part, like a warm cranberry juice.”
In fact, nearly all of the meals I described included tea. But it was the entry on October 3, 1978 that brought the biggest smile to my face. That was my first day of classes and the day I met my husband. The first time I ever wrote his name was when I wrote “tea with Erol.”
This journey back in time has reaffirmed for me that the tea path is the one I was meant to travel.
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What a delightful surprise to realize that tea has been so tightly woven into your past and has evolved to become an integral part of your life today. Thanks for sharing your story Erika. It’s warmed my heart, soothed my soul and put a smile on my face.
Wow, such a heart warming memory! How poetic to associate your first European tea memories with Erol, your long-time partner and husband. As someone who has known you for 40 years, its not surprising that ‘tea’ has become part of you. You personality and character are ‘tea-like.’ Your character is warm, ‘nice and smooth,’ full of flavor. Like tea, your presence adds to ambience of a beautiful setting.
Thank you for sharing such memories and may the good ones continue dear friend!
Dear Erika,
Such a touching and beautifully written story! Thanks for sharing your memories. Erol must be very proud of you in so many ways– I know I am! Wishing you many more happy moments– with and without the tea! :-)
Thank you all for your comments. I really appreciate them!
Dear Erika,
I thoroughly enjoyed your heartwarming, endearing story. Thank you for the 38+years of sharing,
laughing, breaking bread, and sipping tea. May our beautiful friendship continue to brew and emit
warm, sweet aromas.
One thing that is so beautiful about this site is the richness of the backgrounds of contributors and followers. Erika, reading this made me feel really young, as we share Baby Boomer credentials. :) We are all bonded here by tea as well. We have a college student customer from Germany who has brought friends here and introduced them to the world of tea. Europeans are much more familiar with it than Americans, but it’s fun to be part of what is
happening now. You made me want to travel!!
Thanks for the story. I would never thought of Tea and Romance